Most people are much more open to giving care than to receiving it. Giving care places a person in a position of strength, stability and authority. To receive care we must acknowledge our own vulnerability.
As a result, countless people who could benefit from a Christian friend who would listen to them decide instead to tough it out on their own. They remain strong and silent, wearing a smile to hold back a flood of tears. To ask for help, they believe, would be admitting weakness.
But God did not create us to be independent. The message is clear, all the way back to Genesis: “It is not good for the man to be alone.” (Genesis 2:18) The New Testament underscores this theme with more than 50 verses that contain the words “one another.” These verses contain admonitions to “love one another,” “encourage one another,” “build each other up,” and “pray for one another.”
The phrase “one another” tells us that we are not only to give love and encouragement, but that we are also to accept it from others.
It is most difficult for people to ask for help. Many would rather suffer alone than acknowledge their need for help.
But suffering alone is not God’s intent for us. Jesus promises, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:288). We can receive this promised rest when we turn to one another for comfort and help.
Our Stephen Ministers know all about giving and receiving care. They know how difficult it is to ask for help, but they also know the great personal and spiritual growth and healing that follows. They know how to respond in a loving, caring and nonjudgmental manner. They understand the importance of confidentiality. They are equipped, ready and waiting to provide the comfort and care God very much desires each of us to have.
If you find yourself now or in the future facing difficulties in life, don’t succumb to society’s norm of remaining strong and suffering alone. Take the courageous step of seeking help. Open your heart to receiving God’s love and grace through another person.
Stephen Ministry offers the opportunity for a confidential relationship with someone who will listen to you and provide care and encouragement, while Christ works inside you to bring rest to your weary, burdened heart.
For more information on Stephen Ministry, contact one of the pastors, or one of the following Stephen Leaders:
Gin Allen: 903-832-5776
Don Keasler: 903-838-5990
Carolyn Megason: 903-838-9847
Patsy Morriss: 903-793-2769